Erg, okay so i’v never been one to be a controlling gf but one of my ‘friends’ is really starting to take the biscuit. The first time I introduced her to my bf she said ‘he’s my perfect guy’ and since then had been fb chatting him literally everyday, everytime he logs onto fb at mine there’s a message from her, and to my horror the other night she was txting him at near mid-night!
This is entirely not his fault he’s just trying to be nice. But this girl has no standards or morals or anything. I feel like she’s hovering around, waiting for us to fight so she can make her move.
So last night, after talking to 5 or 6 people about it, just to make sure I wasn’t over reacting. Text her saying we need to talk when I’m back but she refused and wanted to know straight away so I told her. She fails to believe that what she is doing is inappropriate and I am so stressed out about it :( I trust my bf not to do anything, even if we had a fight. But I don’t trust her not to try. I mean if you had a gut feeling someone was going to try to get with your bf/gf it would make you uncomfortable right?
I hardly slept last night because of it, I can’t tell him not to talk to her because then i’ll come across as controlling. I just wish she would give us some space :’(